Use your words: Starting over and a review of ‘Late-Talking Children’
Use your words, part I Before we moved from LA I requested my medical records and did the same for Xavi. It was pretty much all review except for the results of Xavi’s initial assessment with the...
View ArticleIntroducing Xavi Be Like
I met Sean in 2002 but I didn’t get to know him until many years later. Enter our blogs. I read his blog, he read mine and we discovered we had a lot in common when it came to music, TV shows and the...
View ArticleThe womb where it happens
This is how I wanted to announce my second pregnancy. Because small Hamilton obsession. (Nope, still haven’t seen it.) Sean didn’t even like me joking about waiting a month to tell him just so I...
View ArticleThis time around
I say/write “this time around” a lot these days when talking/writing about my pregnancy. I can’t think about what’s happening now without my reference point of 2012/13. It’s all feels so different and...
View ArticleXavi is three
Xavi has been in speech therapy in Ithaca for less than a year. However, Sean and I have already met with a number of professionals in early intervention who consistently ask us to describe our son....
View ArticleEnough: On reaching milestones
When he first smiled as a tiny baby, I remember thinking, this is amazing. It was enough. And then he laughed and I wondered, how did I ever know how beautiful life could be before I heard his laugh?...
View ArticleForty plus one
I wrote these thoughts yesterday morning. I now realize there’s a few similarities between what I wrote on Xavi’s due date and what I feel on Bubble’s due date. I seem to have skipped the nesting...
View ArticleThe brief, wondrous birth of Archibald Kevin
I didn’t mean to give up blogging completely during my cuarentena (literally, quarantine, and also the 40 day postpartum period). I know most of my readers have been introduced to Archie through my...
View ArticleLa Cuarentena, the first forty days
Earlier versions of this post were drafted in September-November 2016. Updated for clarity. ***The day after Mamá Toni passed away almost two years ago my mom shared an idea with me. “I was thinking...
View ArticleArchie, we made it!
Earlier today I looked up Archie’s birth story. I had forgotten the exact hour and minute Archie made his way into the world. I know these numbers well for Xavi. But Archie? I just had a round...
View ArticleLa Cuarentena, the first forty days
Earlier versions of this post were drafted in September-November 2016. Updated for clarity. *** The day after Mamá Toni passed away almost two years ago my mom shared an idea with me. “I was thinking...
View ArticleXavi’s Fantastic Fourth Birthday
Note: photos to be added later. Still working on importing old posts. [Photo: On ring bearer duty] On Monday night, just a few hours before his fourth birthday, I rocked Xavi in my arms like he was...
View ArticleArchie, we made it!
Earlier today I looked up Archie’s birth story. I had forgotten the exact hour and minute Archie made his way into the world. I know these numbers well for Xavi. But Archie? I just had a round number....
View ArticleMoving the Goal Posts
In 2018, one of my goals was to get more local. I wrote it down in my bullet journal and even drew a cute little waterfall to illustrate what I meant. At that point, I had been living in Ithaca for...
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